Sandy will take some time tonight to read your thread.
Today's events: So far quiet. Well maybe it had something to do that I left the house 1.5 hours earlier than normal! Then when I went to gym (regular schedule), I parked behind a building next to the gym...and the cloak and dagger goes on. I didn't use the wig but tucked my hair under my collar. Now I am going to leave work about an hour early and see if anyone is lurking in the parking lot...if not make a mad dash home to let the dog out and then pick up D15 who is staying later than usual at school for tutoring. Maybe they will show up tonight -- maybe not. I do know that the extra waiting has to be lovebusting for OW and H. I know my H is obsessing about "not finding me". I guess I must be their main topic of conversation. Oh well. If they can't serve me then they can't divorce me...
I don't want to do this for too long because then they can go to judge and say they can't find me. I am not sure if H will have me served at work because of the "scandal" of both of us working here. It won't be because he wants to spare me any embarrassment but to spare himself from questions.
Yoyo, I am holding my own. I hate this stuff. When your H served you how far along did you have to go with it? Did you have to pull all the financials and all that other stuff together? I dread the process. I am going to name it the "snail divorce process", I have patience and emotionally the longer the better. I had some friends when they got divorced they got to a point that they "just wanted it done" and had so many regrets. I will not be one of those people.
I pray that this D will turn into reconcillation in the end.
take care
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
