It is good to have a kindred spirit as I travel on my journey. I do wish neither of us were here, but we are, so we have to keep moving forward for ourselves and for our daughters.
The letting go of the past is critical, but it is also imperative for us not to lose the lessons the past has taught us, regardless of how painful they were.
The hurt may never go away and I don't think my XW will ever be able to fully work through her issues enough to understand and try to repair the damage she's done to not only me, but to our D.
I think in time someone will be there for both of us. The trouble is the waiting is the hard part. Time is an enemy right now, it seems.