They always think their feelings will never change and they are always wrong. You can't tell them that of course, they have to experience the feelings themselves.

The best thing of course is give her space and avoid being around her if possible. Also agree with her that a separation/divorce the the right thing to do even though you don't believe that. She'll expect resistance so when you don't it'll confuse her and make her think twice. It's going to take a while for her feelings to change again so just roll with it for now and take care of yourself and the kids. She'll be like a zombie anyway and you can't help her. She needs some IC if she'll agree to it to help her cope.


Me:38
W:40
Bomb/EA 03/08
Recon twice
1/09 W files for D
Story