On the plus side, I was telling lwb this recently, she giving a bit more respect because she is not taking any calls anymore the last few times I've been around. In fact, a couple weeks ago while I was at the apartment having dinner, after several calls to her phone and I think some texts, she went to her bathroom. I noticed that she ended up taking her phone with her.
She may have called OM, but at least it was from the toilet.
So this week as well as last night, I know she has been getting texts while I'm around. She may give a quick glance, but then just puts the phone down.
Originally Posted By: karen
I mean if you still have hope.
karen, that's part of the problem at this point. I have 5% hope and the rest is hopeless. I really feel that my marriage is goners. My faith says that, in God, anything is possible. I don't feel like I cater to her like I used to. I still treat her with the unconditional love that I have for her and that is what gets me in trouble. Last Sundays sermon had something to do with that. I'm living my life for me and the kids. Thats it. My life is so entertwined with the wife's because we are both really good parents.
The kids and I have a blast when were together. Just so happens that we have a blast when were together in front of the wife, too. She gets the opportunity to watch but not join in. Too bad for her.
Last night, she also got a little reality check from D11. I'll post more about last night later. The kids and I had a blast together, as usual. All the wife could do was watch.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
