So thats a good thing. As for the rest, he sounds no different than what he's sounded like in the past.
Making his controlling of you sound like good advice. Problem is that you recognize it now.
You're right. I just think if he's 100% vested in me moving to his town 20 miles away, how bout if I wind up getting a job and moving thousands of miles away???? Not in his plans, I don't think.... Karen