Originally Posted By: kat727
Any idea how much longer this will all take? At this rate you are going to go longer than mine! Are his hangups child support and alimony? Is this guy so money hungry that he can't even do the right thing with his own kids?? Hard to fathom.

kat
Well, he's very self-focused; his family is like that too. I remember his sister divorced her 1st H partially b/c of money, she said something like he couldn't support her in the lifestyle to which she was accustomed to me. I think money is important to them. His dad is an L and his mom was a college prof. My dad was the caretaker type and I learned that from him, you focus on family & kids rather than money. I think we are both extremes, and I'm trying to be less extreme about that. I think we just turned into our parents I guess. I don't know how I made it through 19 years. No wonder I got depressed!!!

BTW, Friday might be better for me if ok with you. H is taking the kids to a race he's doing and then dropping them off at lunch Saturday. He is going to take them this Sunday also he says. Karen


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