Which direction do I go?

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Chad,
I have been where you are, more or less, not divorced but certainly done.
I see no need to ask questions.
And I really do not want to do this here, so check your FB site.
No questions because you already know what you are going to do.
A part of you is hoping someone is going to tell you, that you’re an idiot for even entertaining the idea of attempting to reach out to your wife, that someone is going to scream stop. No one should.
Here is what is going to happen, you are going to hurt a lady that doesn’t deserve to be hurt. And that is your fault; it is all your fault, no matter what you talked about or told her, how honest you were you are going to hurt her, simple. And you are going to feel terrible and you are not going to want to do it, but you will.
Your wife, who from a logical point of view deserves to suffer, you are going to start talking to.

FB, accept the request.