You have a great attitude. You sound like a winner to me (even if your H loses!). Look great, be happy, be a great listener and positive when he's around (like a good friend would be), and he will quickly realize he made the stupidest mistake in his life (which it sounds like he's doing!).
Being stuck with some loser who must resort to finding a confused married guy for a date, then gets evicted and loses her job!!! Yikes!!!! Sounds like a nightmare to me. Just be glad you aren't in his situation.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
