Yoyo, that is what my H is thinking. I emailed him why does that matter and he emailed back: because one or both the kids could be in school whether the judge decides it or economic realities require it, with you having equal or primary custody.

We tried to get services for my son when he was in school and the only thing we were able to get was Speech. And she couldn't meet with him half the year b/c too busy (had 120 kids in different schools she was supposed to see each week).! Florida doesn't have much in our area. I have a friend that lives in South Florida and they do have some schools there for autistic kids. Otherwise, mostly in our state they send them to private schools that are $15,000 or more or homeschool.

If he just actually gave a crap about the kids' education, I would feel better, but what he is really focused on is $$ and how he can keep the most money for he and OW. Cute is wearing thin right now, in fact, I'm over it. I don't know how I did it so long, but it has gotten worse the last 2 years or so since OW. I think it's like an addict and he sees me as keeping him from living the wonderful, happy life with OW that he wants. Karen

Last edited by karen43; 02/05/09 06:12 PM.

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