Trying to let go........with love!

[S.T. _I Made It!]

sunshine [He told me just the other day that no one compared to me sexually. ]

not to hijack, but this is a good thing.

and on you driving to his work??? don't ever do that again. do not call him, unless it's important. just by those comments, I can see that you most likely smothered him during the breakup, and that is why he is so scared of you. you need to detach yourself immediately.

okay SC, sorry about that.

SC, really you didn't do that bad, EXCEPT, for all the begging. you can ask questions, as long as you act as if. but you don't want to sound too interested like your jealous. Also, do not tell him your scared of what he will say, because it will make him afraid to tell you. you just need to be brave and act as if.

I can't believe your C is so dumbfounded. It's just society. I mean before, getting D was a taboo, and now, it's the normal thing to do when your unhappy. everyone tells us, we don't have to live miserable, so leave. It's so funny how many generations have learned, but the next generation does not and has to go thru the same problems only to discover the same answers. what a dumb race we are. lol

so, stop trying to figure out if he's dating, or if/why he won't go to MC or try to make it work. He can't right now. His eyes were opened -SO HE THOUGHT- and he can never go back to how things were before. But what he does not realize is how things COULD be. Things don't have to be the same, and that is why we must be patient and we must ACT. It is not by our words that they choose to return, it is by our actions.