...something you haven't tried, or something that seemed to work in the past. Not something that you know doesn't work. Not being obtuse...just do not know what you have or have not done.
A simple statement, "I do not want this."
No guilt, no pressure, honesty.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK