Holy sh&t, MrM ... that's an A+, man. And I don't even GIVE A+'s.
A truly strong, yet compassionate stance in the face of an onslaught out of Hell itself on your integrity and your heart. Well done.
Trying to catch up on some threads, I'll circle back later this afternoon. For now, just STAY THE COURSE. Lovingly distant -- "Joe Friday."
I know it's really hard to see them in pain. It breaks your heart, but it is the consequences of their own infidelity. You have to let it weigh on them.