Jeff...I DO agree with saffie in that...the word 'sacrifice' comes in here.

-does S want to play baseball?
-will counselling help?

There is no doubt in my mind that her having pushed over you and signed up your son without your permission was wrong and a boundary was crossed.

But...again...the kids NEED outside time, sports, etc and frequently WE must sacrifice for THEM. IT IS ALL ABOUT THEM NOW.

Yes...you need time with them and YES..it is not permissible for her to make unilateral decisions regarding the kids.

Does S want to play baseball? If so, is there another league that gives MORE time with you? If not, do you sacrifice so that HE can benefit from team sports?

I DO believe that S should talk with you and NOT W RE: S. That should stop. He should talk directly with you.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;