RTL,
100% in agreement with you....you echo my sentiments. What is done is done...we can only worry about the future. our Ds are hurting...but if they see us "happy", the hurt will slowly fade. I have to believe that.
On the XW front, even if they do come all the way back to who they were, I don't think many of us would be able to forget the hurt their actions have caused.....let's hope we find someone that we are attracted to and who's company we enjoy in the not too distant future. This will undoubtedly help us move on....