The more you push in...the harder he will push out. if you want to see him calm down...leave him alone. Let him be to sort the crisis out on his own. Judging by his anger he has some real issues that have finally come to roost. to ease the tremendous burden he blames you...and gets even madder because even that isnt making them go away. he needs to face these issues to complete this journey, he doest want to ...he cant begin to until you detach and let him be.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
