I would not ask him a dang thing about the D. If he hasn't done anything it's either because he doesn't have the money (not your problem) or he's having second thoughts (and you don't want to push the issue there either). I'm sure there is something I haven't thought about. I know it is tempting and part of us needs to know, but honestly, as long as you don't have paperwork in your hands, then to me, what you are doing is working. I would let it go. Filing for the D is NOT your problem. HE wants it, let HIM go get it.
Just me. I'm at the same point too, cause I gave him the paperwork that was 1/2 done when I wanted the D. Now he has paperwork that is done the wrong way. But he's not working on it. Sooner or later he'll figure out WHY. Of course, it could just be because his plate is loaded. But that's not what I think. If he was hell-bent he wanted it, i would have been a priority.
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."