Matilda, She now thinks she was too generous at the time, and she is appalled that I would have accept her terms. It has something to do with how to deal with inheritance money that she put into either her own retirement accounts or into the house. I think she believes that inheritance money should not be divided in a divorce settlement.
She currently has inheritance money in a mutual fund. I think she believes that that should not be considered marital property. She has fear that I'm going to go after this money.
I've been getting long emails about this theme. She wants me to promise not to touch this money. My stance is nothing's official until I sign the proper document.
In the meantime, division of property is not my primary concern, healing the M is, and finding solutions. We'll deal with division of property when the time comes, though she keeps pressing for a premature commitment from me.
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
