I just think you are not looking at this from your children's point of view. I disagree that's what's best for you is best for them.
Sometimes you have to give a little to get something back in return. Talk to your children rather than make this into a battle between you and your W with the children just being pawns in all of this.
Your children may be reluctant to tell you the truth because they fear hurting you....that's what my sister and I felt like. If you and your W were still together, this time thing would not be an issue and your children would be partaking in activities they wanted to do without all this drama. They would be gradually spending less time with their parents and more with their friends....that's the usual way things evolve as they slowly break the apron strings.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
