Ok, first off welcome to the site, and sorry you are here. Most of us know exactly how much this situation sucks.

Before you do anything, please don't panic, don't beg, plead, flip out, send her flowers, call her constantly, or pursue her. Believe me when I tell you, this will only push her further away and confirm for her that she is making the right decision. Try to avoid discussing the relationship for now. I know the timeframe is short until she is leaving, but you wont be able to change her mind in that time, so you only risk doing more harm than good.

Please do get either DB or DR and read them. I read both, DB first and then DR to secure the knowledge, which also gives you a nice step by step plan to follow. Do not tell her you are reading them, or direct her to this site, DBing is for you.

Finally, try to act like the man she decided to be with when you first met, you want to be as attractive to her as possible and make her wonder if maybe she is making the wrong decision.

More info is better, so be sure to bump your thread here with journal entries if need be.

Last edited by spellfire; 02/05/09 06:34 AM.
Spellfire aka Mike

"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A