Hey ping, sorry that things went the way they did for you. I was wondering what had come of you.
It really sounds to me like maybe you might have proceeded through the divorce as a way of trying to get past the hurt yourself and just wanted out of the pain. Completely understandable, we all have our limits.
So a couple of questions that would be great if you could answer before we go any more in depth on things here.
1. What does the woman you are seeing think of all this?
2. Is the woman that you are seeing now aware of how you feel about your family and what you would do if given the opportunity to heal it?
3. (Please don't answer this one with the off the cuff "yes or no" answer, give it some thought and tell us how you feel.) Do you want to give your marriage a second chance and is it worth sacrificing your current relationship for a period of time to see what will happen?
I think if you answer these questions we will be able to give you a bit better advice/suggestions to help you along your journey. You know my friend, WAS can have changes of heart and no one dictates the time frame that it takes for them to get there. I know people on here who have had them come around 3-4 years after the initial bomb. Sometimes when they do you it is to late, sometimes it isn't. The big question is what do you want?
