I am very glad you posted this as well. Very sorry though, that you had to endure this, but I think its important for all of us to consider. Although I don't know about an EA or PA that my H is involved in certainly does not mean that he is telling the truth. I am happy to say that I stopped ML with H and am really trying hard to stay committed to that. I will think of your post every time I am tempted so thank you!
