I guess another moral of this story is even if you spouse says that nothing "physical" happened between the OW/OM and themselves, don't take that on face value. It was president's day of last year when this happened and my husband at the time SWORE to me that they did not have sex, just "a lot of kissing." That was obviously a big fat lie and I believed it. I thought by having sex with him, I was helping my save my marriage. But it only made things much more confusing between us during that time as well as the outcome of the STD months later. Having sex with your wayward spouse is not a good idea for your marriage or your health.

Sara


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08