It is an extremely strange feeling, isn't it? I know I felt like the divorce just suddenly happened. I just signed some papers and it was all done and over. The day I signed the divorce papers was the single saddest day of my life. I remember I left the laywer's office and as soon as I stepped outside, I burt into tears. I sat in my car for a long time in the parking lot crying. It is difficult all around, but I know you can handle it Jeff. You are a good man.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08