Hey Mel,

When you had your affair, were you angry all the time at your H? Did you nitpick at him and just constantly avoid him?

I'm trying to figure out if my W was feeling guilty all that time or if it was something besides the affair. She was angry at me for months after it occured. Of course she was angry before then to. But she nit picked at me and nothing I did was right.

She basically admitted the affair Monday and said she didn't want to talk about it. I know it occured sometime in October just from timeline of events and when I saw her text messages. I don't know if it was ongoing after that or not.

But would guilt from that make her angry all the time at me for anything and everything and make her constantly not want to be seen in public with me?

Or is it just that she was done and just didn't care anymore?

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...