Runningoutoftime, I will take you advice and continue to have a busy life, which I do well. I make sure I do keep busy b/c if I'm not then I feel like there are so many chances to get down. I know with my GAL H will think that there still is OM but ah well. I feel comfortable know that I've cleared that up. Funny thing is that in my therapy session yesterday my T started to say that he doesn't agree with my "OM" idea and then I told him that I fessed up to the truth so I take that as God's way of letting me know that I did the right thing.
Hope, thanks for the encouragement. It is so true that I think that now that it has been 5 mths that H is with OW, I do think they are love busting. Hehehehe. He keeps saying "I miss my wife" which I do like hearing. But I think he is trapped b/c she got evicted and has no job. But that's H's mess to figure out and if he does want his wife back he will figure it out. Not my worries. I feel all I can do is sit back and relax until he does, if he does. Will have to see.
Anyway, thanks for the encouragement. I will try to get back to limited contact b/c H and I have been talking almost daily and I want him to miss me even more!!! And, I also want to break this love triangle.