Midwestern Girl 1/25/09

[MidwesternGirl]

here is what I want to say to him:

i do not want to yell or be angry but i would appreciate it if you hear me out.

you come over, you never say a thing to anyone unless someone speaks to you first. normally, you ignore everyone and go right for the refrigetor and get soda then go outside, empty your cigarrette trash then go back out sit, smoke and drink soda.

you never ask how anone is doing, you very rarely call or text anybody here to see if we are okay, you rarely answer anyones texts. oh we try and text you but we cannot sit and wait around.

if something god forbid should happen, are you just going to ignore us? maybe from now on work on texting or calling back--it would make a difference in how people interact with you instead of thinking you just dont care.

you ve got a son who is a yong man who needs a father's guidance. he has not had that for five years now. all he knows is a father who cheats on his mother with an adulteress. you have a 17 year old daughter who so prays for you all the time, who wants to establish a relationship with you

you have a 15 year old who seems to have given up on a father she once loved but sees you as someone who only cares for himself and his current lifestyle.

i am not saying these things to hurt you..i am saying these things so that you see things from outside the box you currently live in.