If I were in your shoes, I would let him have it w/both barrels. I'm sorry, but what the hell does he expect everyone to do? He's the only one w/a reliable car and he's put all of you in this mess. I say let him have it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
