Hi Cinders,

Well, your post gave me hope. I had no problem living with H and sharing and accepting. But I guess in a new R you love somebody and everything is easier.

I just cannot imaging loving somebody again at my age. The guys who would be interested in me are so old!!! The problem is that guys at my age want a 10-15 years younger woman. Therefore, only the older ones are left "on the market". Anyway, I am not stressing about it.