MWG, you are justifiably angry right now you have far too much on your plate, whilst h has nothing. A short while ago you did speak up for yourself to him honestly and he seemed fine with it, you even said he told you that he wanted you to tell him what was troubling you or on your mind. I think I got that right, it was when Snod said he was far enough along to be told these things.
What happened in between? I just don't get it, he tells you to give up your job-why I don't know because then he starts griping about money. Surely he has sat back and done nothing with no responsibilty for anything for far too long. He really needs a wake up call but what. It seems to me he could pull the plug on what he pays for whenever he gets the urge so please look again at how you would deal with this IF the need arises. Take care of yourself. I am sorry you gave up your job, I know it was hard and pay lousy but it did get you out of the house and meeting other adults even for a bit of banter. That helps.
