She also has been making comments about buying a new car. The first couple times I just listened and didn't respond. The other day I told her "I have heard you when you say you want a new car. I just have a lot of thinking to do and we can talk about it soon.
This works on two levels. One, it's got to be making her think I'm not sure if we're going to be together long enough to buy a new car together and two, shows her that I'm listening to her.
VERRRY well-done, H4U!!!
I'm glad that you're calling her on her b.s., and not at ALL surprised that it's working with her. Keep it up!
