Only had S2 today as oldest said he was feeling a bit poorly so didn't force him (tho he was playing all happily when i dropped S2 off thee little pickle). Anyway, dropped S2 off after fun time and spoke to STBX re having the boys overnight next Monday and saturday as my oldies away and then went downstairs and noticed a ltr to XXXXX (my mums name) so I scan read it and there was also some other handwriting so a 'friend' had obviously added more which I didn't really read properly. Anyway, I popped out to do FFL stuff and back an hour later and my mum in tears. She had got the ltr down to my mum in that short time and I read it...It was unbelievable to say the least, attacking my mum as parent and grandparents, quoting bits of the bible and trying to put them on a guilt trip re the boys not staying in their house with me. Silly thing is, cant imaginewhat she expected togain from it and it will go against her with solicitors i'm sure so will be holding onto it. I'm tempted to show her parents and wanted to text or ring straight away but doing the 48 hr thing. also, even in space of an hour I know it's better I turn the other cheek and just avoid anything to do with her now and leave to solicitors.
To say I'm livid is an understatement, but I'm more upset than anything for my mum. Being dragged into my mess and being spoken to like that. pure disgust, but hey, what should i expect really.
