For once I have to agree with OT.
I am giving her "her space" right now. and I will continue this until V-day. I will then continue to give her "space" but also start my "love Dare"
Like I said before I no longer want to fix the "Old Marriage" I want to start new. I am looking at this "giving her space" time like when your computer crashes. You need to turn it off and let things settle before you turn it back on.
I am reading the lovedare book. even though I am not doing the dares there is alot of information to think about. A few weeks ago I was ready to move on. kind of looking forward to dating agian. I think I have moved on.. and my dating.... will start with my wife..

Doc.

thanks for all of the input. It really helps to see all sides..


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know