OK, but I should tell her that unless she cuts off all contact with OM then we have nothing to talk about, right? That's what I meant by a rundown of where I stand. I guess that's more of a boundary than anything.
And you're right, I really do need to change my name. It's crazy to think how clueless I was before I found DR and this forum. Now I feel so much stronger and in control. I can't control my W but I sure as heck can and have taken back control over my life.
Me: 33 WAW/MLC: 33 M: 4+, T: 10+ Separated: Nov 08 A#1: Oct 08 - Jan 09 (exposed and ended) A#2: Feb 09 - ? 1: http://tinyurl.com/mrmistakes 2: http://tinyurl.com/ckch9t 3: http://tinyurl.com/stillwaters3