OK, but I should tell her that unless she cuts off all contact with OM then we have nothing to talk about, right? That's what I meant by a rundown of where I stand. I guess that's more of a boundary than anything.

And you're right, I really do need to change my name. It's crazy to think how clueless I was before I found DR and this forum. Now I feel so much stronger and in control. I can't control my W but I sure as heck can and have taken back control over my life.


Me: 33
WAW/MLC: 33
M: 4+, T: 10+
Separated: Nov 08
A#1: Oct 08 - Jan 09 (exposed and ended)
A#2: Feb 09 - ?
1: http://tinyurl.com/mrmistakes
2: http://tinyurl.com/ckch9t
3: http://tinyurl.com/stillwaters3