Dear Poet, Thanks for sharing your situation. This was your question:
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My question is: if he really wants to do this, why is he breaking meetings and dragging his feet?
You and I don't really know exactly why he is breaking the meetings, right? There could be a number of reasons, one of which, could be him rethinking the D decision.
What is more important is to know what YOU want with this M at this point. If you do not want this D, then your H dragging his feet is better than if he is aggressively pushing it through, right? This could give you time to continue to DB and give him more time to ponder and possibly second-guess what he really wants.
So before I go too far Poet, what is your goal for the R?
Laurie, Divorce Busting Coach Contact The Divorce Busting Center at 303-444-7004 or 800-664-2435 if you would like to schedule a telephone consultation with a DB Coach - or email virginia@divorcebusting.com for info.