It seems to be working! Sometimes....

[Silent Chrleader]

... I think we are both tired of the circling but the weird thing is I "think" we both want to the same thing.

I completely agree with you on this one! And because of that, I believe that you will figure this all out eventually. You will undoubtedly have setbacks, but the love you share with your H is very clear to me, although you both may not be consciously aware of it under all the hurt.

Be patient and keep the faith.....in yourself!!