Ok my friend - so you backslid. Not the end of the world. Happens a lot in the beginning. And I am sorry to say, you are at the beginning.
What you have to remember is that you are having expectations. You are hoping he is going to say something about the two of you. Aint gonna happen now. Get it out of your head.
He is still heavily into his MLC. And no amount of you saying you think if you go to MC it would help is going to help, ya know?
I promise you this, you cannot make this go any faster. And everytime you question him or tell him you think you two could work, adds time to it.
He has to figure this out on his own. You cannot convince him. What he is hearing from you is pursuing. Dont do it anymore.
I know it is hard. I do. It took me at least a year to get it. But the sooner you accept that this is all part of MLC, the better off you'll be.
So, now you know that he is dating. You know he doesnt want to try right now. All difficult to hear, I know. But you dont have to ask those questions anymore. He answered them. Doesnt mean the answers wont change one day. Just means that you cant ask them right now.
S, I know it hurts, I know the fact that he doesnt even want to try makes you crazy. But you have to let him go through this. He needs to figure it all out.
And hopefully one day he will. But let him see someone he wants to come back to. And maybe work on the things that he said bothered him if you feel they are justified. Only if you feel they are.
Dont tell him thats what you are doing. Just do it.
So, dust yourself off, pick yourself up and start again.
You can do this my friend. I know you can. NO MORE QUESTIONS. pinky promise?
