I told him that I thought under the circumstances that it would be better for us to just do things with our own families. That way no one feels awkward. (I was very nice about it)
BUT....I kept my calm. I told him he could use the house to have his family over on the Saturday he has the kids and I would be glad to find something to occupy my time for a few hours. I just asked that he clean up the mess when they leave.
Well done. Nice compromise. You really proved to be the bigger person here.
Married - 19 years Noticed Problem - Aug 2008 THE Conversation - Oct 2008
The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.
