I'm constantly amazed at how you are able to keep yourself busy through all of this. I don't seem to have the physical energy - or is that my cold I picked up in DC? Not sure, but I'm glad you are pushing forward w/your stuff and the sculpture sounds cool. Will there be FB pics for us to see?
As for BF, yes, his pace is painfully slow and he may be at this pace for a while. I'm glad to hear you've put a time table of sorts on your sitch and if he does try to work it out w/Helen, you'll vacate for good as you'll know it is too toxic to stay.
He may surprise you and come your way too, but regardless, any movement from him is what is needed. Hopefully, it will be good and positive for you in the R sense, but even if it isn't a "fresh start" will be very healthy for you.
