hi Vicky, read your sitch today.
When my H said he does not love me anymore and I need to move on (ouch), I said "I have moved on, just because I am not dating is because I chose not to date", "why should I just date someone so you will feel better about your R". H got very quiet.

Keep doing what you are doing. Look great, make yourself less available. I used to think that I had to make opportunities to see H but recently I started no contact with him for the last 2 weeks so I would preserve the love I still had for him. I think it has been harder for him not to hear from me. The more he spends time with OW more chance for them to start love busting.

You are doing great.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09