By all means if SHE brings up the hormones as an issue, listen and validate, etc. I'm just saying that I hate it when I'm upset at h, or work, or whatever, and I share with him, and he immediately goes to me and my hormones/pms, etc. I think he does this in part due to his job, (MD) and partly b/c he doesn't want to ever think he might be part of the issue (and maybe b/c he's a man and a "fixer" so, who knows?) But it does make me screw my head in the ceiling (and it's way worse when he's right!!)
I have to own my communications though, he is not a mind reader. I get that.
W, you see the point I'm making? It's not that the hormones are NOT part of this; it's that I doubt him saying it will help. Since she has brought it up though, at least we know she's aware of it.
anyhow, don't get discouraged Ral, she isn't speaking with total clear finality and that's a good thing. I mean if she said you repulse her and she hates you, and feels fine, but just hates YOU, etc, that's a diff sitch. She's not.
Hang in there, ( j )
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
