Dan,

You may have hit the nail on the head. Perhaps most of the women I meet are getting attached a little too quickly for my taste. I may also be trying to find myself....luckily nobody has brought up marriage. One lady did bring up kids and I told her that I will not be fathering any more children. Now if she needed some practice, I may be willing to help.
Seriously though, I am not sure that I know what I am looking for.