Trying to let go........with love!

[Silent Chrleader]

Hey, sandy.

That's a good hypothesis, but I know that H has not told BF about the PA. BF is actually the one that hired OW 8 years ago when they both worked at H's previous employer. In fact, that's possibly part of H's mindset against even trying to reconcile with me, because it would mean complete severing of all contact with OW, and she is part of that social circle with BF, and would likely be included in social activities. Thus, putting H in the uncomfortable position of either completely coming clean with BF, which he won't do because he has always been in a role of mentor to BF since BF was "one of his guys" in the Navy, or breaking off/severely limiting his contact with BF. I can't see H being willing to do either of those things.

And H has told them that we are in counseling, so they think it's MC, and that H is just the upstanding guy.

And, hey, I feel like I just whined and complained all evening last night and didn't talk very much about your sitch. I'm sorry for that, but I do thank you very much for your kind support and encouragement at my pity party!

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