Rustie, I agree, we are getting things said. It really hurts to hear them, but we have both been holding in for 13 years.
Half-in, half-out, it's like being kinda pregnant, IMHO.
lmao. reading DB again. laughing at the lady whose husband has become a couch potato in the 180 thing. "can't" get a job, unable to help around, house, etc, and Michelle tells her to tell him that really just overestimated him, that she realizes now that he'll never have another job and she goes and gets nursing home brochures. *okay*. see if ya'll follow me. First, I won't do this. Not unless you ALL told me, uh-uh, that's a great idea, go try it. so what if i told H that I guess i just overestimated his ability to forgive and look toward the future. That I realize he could never forgive me or treat me fairly and that it is just too much to ask of him. i guess i could leave some lawyer brochures laying around, (lmao), but of course i won't....
it would change the dynamics just a little bit, though, huh?? something to think about.
M
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
