When I found out that she slept with someone. I went and did it too. But no one seems to understand that I did it so that she would not feel guilty about her affair.
Do you really think that's true? You don't think it was maybe b/c of anger, revenge or a desire to pay her back? I don't think you are being honest with yourself if you think that's true. I think DBing takes honesty and the willingness to change. Karen
