Well, he called back. I tried to ignore my cell phone but he knows better than that so he called my work phone.

I told him that I thought under the circumstances that it would be better for us to just do things with our own families. That way no one feels awkward. (I was very nice about it)

His response was his apartment is not big enough to have his family in (his stepmom is rather large and his apartment is the size of a cracker box) and since he was still making the house payment that he should be able to do what he wanted at the house. My tongue is bleeding from biting on it from that. One more month and the house is MINE, MINE, MINE!!!!

BUT....I kept my calm. I told him he could use the house to have his family over on the Saturday he has the kids and I would be glad to find something to occupy my time for a few hours. I just asked that he clean up the mess when they leave.

So how is that for being the bigger person?

After being the nice one he tells me nevermind, he will figure something out himself.

So.....see, he is an @$$ and is never satisfied!!!!