Thanks everyone. Although painful, this doesn't hurt any more than being with him knowing darn well he didn't want me. THAT was the worst. I am beyond sad though knowing that my son is going to suffer from this. I would love to spare him the pain of not seeing his parents get back together as he has been so hopeful. Does anyone have any idea on how to lessen the pain on their kids? I think I've decided I'm not going to say anything to him immediately, he will just "see" that mommy and daddy aren't spending time together anymore and when he asks questions, I will answer them honestly as I always do. He does know that mommy and daddy were "trying" but that we didn't know if we would be able to get back together. But of course, he was hoping like the devil.
About H, I am seeing more of who he has become and that is not someone I care to be with anyway. (Gee if I had a dime for every time someone on these boards said THOSE words.)
Anyone else out there who is choosing not to work on their marriage anymore? Would love to exchange thoughts.
