Wandering Poster 49 - No gold here!

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Jeff,

I agree with beginner.. it must be a relief at least to be out of limbo land, or on the platform and the train is approaching to take you out of limboland hey! And sounds like, amongst the sadness and saying goodbye to your M, you can glimpse a future for yourself, out there somewhere. Its really heartening to read.

I thought of you, lying in bed last night.. hehehe.. I was reading Passionate Marriage, its SUCH a good book isnt it?? I can feel it seeping into me.. its already really affected how I deal with some family members, that its ok to not agree with them, but I dont have to take it personally, I can just be me and let them be them.. cant explain, but I've noticed ! Thanks to T for reccomending it to us. I will have to read it twice though!

As for rushing.. I think if you're M has been 'over' for so long, theres no reason to hang back, when the time comes! A whole new world awaits you. It is so sad that your W cant at least meet you half way though, and do some work on herself or on talking to you about whats REALLY going on (not housework hey)

Love Al xxx

[transformer]

Dear Jeff,

Thanks for stopping by my thread. Wow, I have missed a lot in your situation! You sound really strong, and actually really excited. I am glad that you're moving forward with your life. You deserve true love and happiness!!!

hugs!
T

[BobbiJo]

Thinking of you, Jeff. Glad you sound like you are doing well al things considered. I too have had moments of wondering what it will be like to kiss someone, look forward to getting together, all those things you do in a REAL loving relationship....

I know you aren't at that point yet of actually DOING it, but glad you can think about it and realize there is so much out there for you!

[Virtually_Handsome]

((((((T))))))
I hope what I said made sense!

(((((((BobbiJo))))))
Heck, the thought of holding a hand (other than my kids'!) of some one that wanted to be there is almost too much to take!

[Kalni]

Hi jeff mou,
hope you are enjoying your trip still. Dont worry too much. Things will fall into place anyway...(worry or not).

Sometimes we see an ending but it is really a beginning that we cant yet recognise.
Love
K

[One Day]

(((Handsome))))

I agree with K- everything will work out.

I too have had moments of wondering what it will be like to kiss someone, look forward to getting together

...see them in fluffy socks, wonder how quickly they can swim the Atlantic Couldn't have said it better myself

L. xx

[Virtually_Handsome]

Being in much better shape than I was a year ago, a quick swim of the Atlantic seems possible! Though it is tempting to cheat, and use a plane.... that was my socks would stay dry....

(((((Kalni)))))(((((Lisa)))))

I don't have any doubt that things are going to be fine. Actually, better than fine. The next few months are going to be hard, stressful, etc. But I think it is a light at the end of the tunnel, not an oncoming train!

[JCJ]

Hope you are having fun (((Jeff)))

[Babygirl]

hey jeff, hope you are enjoying texas!! you sound alot better my dear!!
hugs to you!!!

[MichelleLT]

(((Jeff)))

Hope you are having a blast.

Happy Friday.