Advice Please...Con't #2

[WCW]

Ral doesn't need to tell his W she has hormonal issues and use it to blame her for everything wrong. She already said

She doesn't know how she feels yet. Sometimes she feels guilty but, she doesn't feel the same. She said it could be MLC/ hormones, she states "I've been trying to please everyone else except me".

Because she is already aware of HER own hormones, I suggested ral support her. That is coming from me as a woman who would love some moral support from my H while I wade thru these issues. 25y would be offended as hell in her womans position, in my womans position I would love support. There you have 2 opposite opinions and you Ral will have to feel what is right for you and your W. Ral and everyone that wants to dismiss the whole hormonal thing (and prolapsed uterus that causes pain/problems), there is a huge difference between throwing it in her face and offering support. Anyone remember the term VALIDATING?

She works all day at her job and then comes home and takes care of S-11, his Homework, Bathes him later, 1-2 loads of wash, you get the idea. I cook dinner , handle dishes, trash etc.

Why does she bathe an 11 year old S? or do you mean she just makes sure he does it? What type of shift do you work? a regular day shift or in your paramedic life is it 24 on?

ral, start living your life. Give your W some alone time. Get out of the house with your S11 and have some fun.