I was thinking about your situation. Does your W know you want to talk about her A?
My big thing with my H was wanting to know all the details so I could work out why it had happened.....to try and ensure it didn't happen again. It was getting that sorted in my head that helped.
I expect your W isn't keen to share what happened because she doesn't feel too proud of what she did. Why did she decide to reconcile with you rather than be with OM? Was it her decision to end the R with OM or was it his? all these little things can make a difference.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
