PM Thread #3

[Can it work]

Hi PM, thanks for calling in on my thread again. It sounds as though you're reaching a turning point in your sitch. It's good to hear that you're not hurting so much any more. However my sitch turns out, I want to get to the stage where it doesn't hurt any more.

You've got so much to be thankful for. Keep embracing that and you're going to be just fine I think. If you feel you're ready to dip your toe in to the waters of love again, you go for it. Above all, we all deserve happiness. Even if I can never make my W love me again, I'd still want her to be happy. She's given me so much in life already with my beautiful Wee Man. I would love for us to share his life and growth but know that may not be possible. It's still too early for me to give up though.

I think you still want your M to work and are still trying so hard because you know what your H can be because you've seem it before and you want that man back. If you were to meet your H for the first time today, maybe you wouldn't hit it off at all. There's a lt of history between you though and that's something worth hanging on for. I would advise you not to completely abandon the idea of a reconcilliation with your H but don't wait around for it either. It's time to start living for you.

One request though, if you do go off to find love again, don't leave these boards. You're presence here would be a miss if you did.